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Dating while working in the adult industry is weird. I’ve sworn off dating for the time being because I’m just so clueless. All the dates I’ve had in the past two years failed miserably because I just totally missed the cues to move the relationship forward. I failed so consistently I even questioned my queerness. [...]

I’m editing a video of a lovely young woman, and I think this might have been her first time using a vibrator. The first toy I filmed her using was a just plain dildo, and she totally faked it. That’s ok. I would really prefer that women not fake it, but if you’re not going [...]

This lovely lady is welcoming you to a series of free holiday sets that you will undoubtedly enjoy! You can see the rest of her at Gothic Sluts, or go straight to the April Flores Xmas gallery. Over at Barely Evil you will find a free gallery featuring an adorable reindeer who is very simple [...]

Here’s an official CyDyBlog welcome to Chrissy Daniels, the newest member of the Cyber Dyke Network! Her site is awesome. As I was browsing around I was really impressed. Inside the members area you will find a discussion forum (frequented by Chrissy herself), a personal diary, fan works, wallpaper, a webcam and chat room, and [...]

I know I never write about anything of substance…but David Hyde Pierce really is gay! I know he always seemed gay, but I always assumed that was just his style as an actor. I felt the same way when I heard about John Inman, too…

This truly amazes me. A court in Pakistan has decided that if a transman has not had bottom surgery, he is still a woman. This is surprising to me mostly because the decision meant that a lesbian couple ended up in jail – whereas if he HAD had the bottom surgery, he would be a [...]

Last November, South Africa became the first country in Africa – and the fifth in the world – to legalize gay marriage. The measure received an overwhelming vote in Congress, with 230 ayes to 41 nays. But even though same sex couples can legally get married in South Africa, culture still dictates otherwise. South Africa [...]

Whew, okay, now I’m back and posting. According to the Cleveland Plain-Dealer, the LGBT Archives at Western Reserve Historical Society have stepped up their efforts to improve their collections. The LGBT Archives, which were established in 1991, are looking for personal stories, oral histories, documents, photographs, and publications. If you have anything to contribute I [...]

Just wanted to let everybody know that I am back from vacation! I am slowly posting my pictures and I’ve got a few cool items to share. Fortunately I have the whole weekend to put them up…see you soon!

If you’re a linguistic nut like I am, there’s another article in response to Safire’s piece (about the term “gay” no longer applying to women) that you might find interesting.