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I know that not everyone is personally interested in participation in sex work or consuming adult entertainment, but to go so far as to say that it is not a valid form of sexual expression is absurd. I just don’t understand. It crosses gender boundaries too. I’ve seen both men and woman say and do things that are very sex work negative. The latest thing that pissed me off was a posting in a sex-positive blog where a woman is writing about pornography and then goes on to write about how she doesn’t pay for porn and doesn’t need or want to pay for it. Thanks a lot for not supporting sex workers’ businesses. I’ll just pay my rent with all this sex-positive love I’m receiving from you.

If you’re not involved with porn production you might not realize how statements about not wanting/needing to pay for porn but expect to consume it anyway feel like you’re stealing a piece of my creative spirit. I take great pride in the work I create. It is a tremendous creative outlet for me, and when I was a stripper that was also a tremendous creative energy outlet. Hearing that you expect to be able to consume my creative energy without any exchange makes me ill. Literally. I feel my stomach knotting up as I write this.

If you are kink-positive then there is no reason to deny the validity of a fetish for consenting adults exchanging money in private for any variety of sexual entertainment services. For some reason the kink end of the sex-positive community is the worst, especially in targeting pro-dommes. It’s always baffled me how being an amateur and doing kinky things for fun is ok but if you’re a professional and want payment then you’ve just ruined “it” for everyone. In fact, the people that I meet in my private pro-domme practice are infinitely more interesting than the people I used to meet when I was in the BDSM scene. There are a few notable exceptions, including my roommate and current friends, but for the most part I prefer spending time with the guys that seek out a pro-domme. There are many people that don’t play in public for any number of reasons and I am so happy to meet these people through my pro-domme business.
What really strikes me as odd is the number of women that have entitled attitudes when it comes to sex work. The people that contact me for refunds or complaints about cyber-dyke.net membership identify themselves as female far more often than they identify themselves to me as male. I do get the occasional message from a guy that “doesn’t need to pay” for whatever sexual entertainment, thank you patriarchy. I’m not sure why women think that they are entitled to refunds or entitled to not pay for sexual entertainment. Another symptom of the patriarchy? Maybe women just aren’t as familiar with sex work business and don’t realize some dude already took advantage of some scam to get free adult entertainment years ago. I don’t know, but I would love to hear what other folks think and read other material on this topic. Doesn’t the sex-positive community realize how many current or former sex-workers are in their midst?

LKS, as it is affectionately known, has been around for years doing its level best to promote a healthy and positive image of lesbian sexuality. There is great information on our sex practices and you have a lot of fun along the way! The owners graciously let us have a peek inside their site and we can assure you that this is fun and informative resource not to be missed. 

What LKS does is provide us with straight-forward writing and depictions, in photos, fine art illustrations and videos, of our sex as it should be experienced. It does so in a way that is elegant without being stuffy or clinical or sacrificing hotness. After all, what we do together is very hot — what would be the point of diminishing that or toning it down? 

So if you want to know about anything from Lesbian fisting and female ejaculation to the secrets of oral sex, or if you are looking to spice things up or be inspired to try new positions for your favorite sexual activities, do check out Lesbian Kama Sutra! 

The cost is very modest and you’ll be a supporting a worthy cause — your own and your partners’ sexual fulfillment!

It’s interesting- I identify as female-to-femme, a drag queen in a girl body. I don’t necessarily feel like I am lacking a cock, and yet, when I strap one on, it is as much a part of myself as my arm. My cock is silicone, and it doesn’t even  settle on my clit or have a vibrator in it- but I psychologically feel the blow job coursing through me, and it feels right, somehow. And I enjoy that it’s queer and subversive, for my intellectual pleasure rather than some physical one- it just ticks a lot of sexy boxes for me. Never mind that having a willing lover using their tongue devotedly on my cock is street legal… or close enough.

This toy is a phalate-free TPR plastic called velvet touch. It is a waterproof, but can’t be totally sterilized like silicone. If the toy is going to be shared, and this one will be, make sure to use a condom over it. Otherwise it can be cleaned with soap and water or a 10% bleach solution. It has an adjustable speed dial on the same end where you insert the two AA batteries. It is pretty much silent. I don’t think you can hear it buzz unless you are the person using it. The total length is six inches and it’s not really shaped to be inserted. I tried. It didn’t work.

The toy has a nice curvy shape and the tip is slightly angled. The surface has these raised bumps around the center length. It really is shaped to spoon your vulva. I like that this toy touches all over your labia and vulva instead of just hitting the clit. If you like stimulation all over you will probably like this. I didn’t feel the vibration particularly focused in any one area of the toy. I liked the curve below the angled head on my clit, but I’m not sure if the vibration was really focused there. It certainly wasn’t focused in the tip or the head of the toy.

I could feel that the toy had a strong motor and the vibrations were reasonably powerful. I didn’t really get off on it though. It felt nice and I was able to enjoy myself, but I’m really used to have a vibe really strongly focus on my clit.

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Ah, darkPlay! In 2000 darkPlay.net opened it’s online doors and introduced the world to all the dark kinky fantasies that women have. Even today, nine years later, there are still people propagating the myth that women are only interested in romance, sensual, soft core, vanilla types of porn. darkPlay.net is documentary evidence that women have dark fantasies and enjoy watching decadently sleazy porn.

This photo is from a recent update at darkPlay.net and shows the sort of wonderfully sleazy porn that I think many women can get behind. Look at that hideous hotel bedspread! The models are really lovers off screen, they’re really enjoying each other, they’re really fucking and licking and kissing, they choose to embrace manicures and boob jobs for their own personal enjoyment, and they don’t care what anyone else thinks. This is truly feminist empowered pornography.

Ginger Leigh from Sextoys.com is giving away a $1000 sex toy shopping spree. Head over to blog.SexToys.com to see all the details. I’ll be working on my wishlist tonight.

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Warranty: Sextoys.com offers no warranty on prizes.

Minx is one of our long time Cyber-Dyke girlfriends with a personal website, MinxAddiction.com She is one of the few authentic goth altporn models out there with her own solo website. I know there are a ton of altporn and gothic fetish sites out there, but Minx is real. She may not be covered in tattoos and piercings but she’s not a plastic LA porn star doing it for the money. She’s a real grrl next door. She’s a woman that you would have in your criminal psych class or run into at a small metal or punk show. In addition to her website, she’s been featured in several different magazines such as Secret and Bizarre.

Minx is a juicy sweet femme who likes it on the bottom even though she’s a real tough gal. She was one of Zille’s lovers and then seduced Chrissy and Penny and the whole Cyber-Dyke staff really. Her website is now available to all cyber-dyke subscribers, so head on over to MinxAddiction.com to see all of her hot photos, video and writings.