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Sex and vegans

March 29, 2008 | Health, Pop Culture, Sex

In spite of the apparent popularity of Steak and Blowjob Day, vegan women are becoming increasingly more popular in the adult industry. Being vegan myself, I find this very exciting. I’m not entirely sure why vegans are so much sexier. Perhaps it is our healthy lifestyles, and compassionate natures. Maybe it’s just because alternative looking women are the trend of the moment, and a lot of those women are also vegans. Another porn star once mentioned to me that vegans smell better and have better tasting body fluids, and I agree. Perhaps we’re just better cooks. Fleshbot took notice of this trend but I don’t think they’ve seen long time cy-dy friend, Furry Girl’s website VegPorn.com

I think vegan visibility in the adult industry is a good thing even though I see sex workers and sex positive people getting all sorts of horrible comments in online vegan communities. I’ve never had anyone say a bad word about vegan porn to my face, but then I also generally don’t associate with people who would wish to say bad things about me to my face. I think that combining veganism and sexuality creates healthier attitudes towards our bodies and the highlights the importance of sexual health and diet in total health.

My Body Waxing Fetish

February 29, 2008 | Sex

I love the smooth feel of a hairless bit of skin, but I’m generally too lazy to shave. I did that Nair stuff for a while, but it really just burned my skin. Waxing, however, is sheer decadent delight and surprisingly erotic treat. I don’t usually like to splurge and spend so much money on waxing, but just the other day I had some extra money and had my eyebrows waxed. I had forgotten that it was so wonderful. I’m not a pain slut, I don’t like kinky play where I receive pain, but I do like getting waxed.

First, there is the satisfying feeling of having hair removed so efficiently. The wax is laid down, the cloth is pressed on, and then zip! I don’t have to think about hair for a few weeks. I had my eyebrows waxed many times and always had that efficient satisfying feeling of getting things done. When I finally had my legs waxed for the first time I discovered the erotic enchantment. I almost slid off the table. The woman asked if I was ok. I was more than ok. Having the hair pulled from such a large area all at once overwhelmed my senses. It is painful, but a special sort of pain.
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Thigh One On Video

December 27, 2007 | CyDy Network, Sex

When I met my wife 10 years ago, she had a toy I’d never seen before: a thigh harness. It turns out to be available from several different shops, and it’s called the Thigh One On harness. This is a great toy for bouncing your lover on your knee…kind of like an easy-to-use fucking machine that you don’t need any equipment for and that only costs $32! Just wrap it around your leg, sit your girl on top, and give her a pony ride she’ll never forget!

If you need more evidence of how the Thigh One On harness works, head over to Sappho’s Girls where they have two videos of it in action! Each video is about eight minutes long, and I think you’ll like them!

Zille on Muki

November 7, 2007 | Cool Links, Sex

I officially dedicated tonight to being “do what I want to” night, so except for a little bit of math homework, I’m chilling out. I found myself at Muki’s Kitchen, a site dedicated to vore. Also known as vorarephilia, it basically refers to cannibalism with a sexual context, although Eka’s portal provides examples of many other types of vore. Believe it or not, one of Cyber Dyke’s founders was featured in a couple of portfolios at Muki’s Kitchen! Although Zille’s photos are no longer available for online purchase, you can still see her in the free samples section. And even better, there is an essay she wrote about her experience modeling for Mr. and Mrs. Muki. (I believe it was originally posted at DarkPlay but I’m not sure.)

So anyway, I thought I would share the link to Muki’s Kitchen with anyone reading…if anyone is reading! (I never get comments so it’s hard to know.) If you want, you can share your thoughts on the vore fetish in the comments…I’d really love to hear from anybody out there…please?!

Pink Personal Lubricant

April 20, 2007 | Sex

I have to tell you, I feel really weird right now. I just wrote about a brand of lube on my new site, Pink Blog, and I had to put it in all these flowery words. “Toys” instead of dildos, “personal lubricant” instead of lube…it’s a perfectly natural product but it’s just weird to write about it on a NON-adult blog. I mean, you can buy lube in the grocery store, it’s on shelves at kid-eye-level, but what if kids come to see Pink Blog? It’s such a relief to have a place to come where I can say…

PINK lube is for making your pussy wet! And it comes in a bottle indistinguishable from most perfume bottles!

I feel better now.

Audio-Controlled Vibrators

April 13, 2007 | Cool Links, Sex

I came upon an excellent sex toy blog called Slashdong and I wanted to share it with you. Specifically, I want to direct you to Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Modern Audio Toys, which is the most in-depth review - and analysis - I have ever seen of audio-based toys, or possibly even any sex toy! (I was going to say it’s not safe for work, but then I remembered - neither is this blog. So if you’re reading this, you either don’t care about NSFW, or you aren’t even at work. To read more about NSFW, check out Susie Bright’s posting: Not Safe For Prudes.)

Tasteful Nudes

April 4, 2007 | Cool Links, Sex

Who’d have thought that Metafilter would lead me to a site full of gorgeous women? It started with a link to Susie Bright’s blog, where I saw a picture in the sidebar with the tagline “tasteful nudes” on it. This led me to DOMAI, whose tagline is: We respect woman and her beauty. And they do! I was absolutely blown away by the simple, natural beauty on this site. There’s no popups and no cookies and no banners, it’s all very plain and beautiful.

They have a “beauty of the day” feature that gives a free large picture daily, but my favorite picture is Sabrina. There’s such a timeless beauty in that picture - and yet it’s a recent picture, you can see she’s got her upper ear pierced. This whole site is just gorgeous, you really should check it out.

German Sex Toys

February 27, 2007 | Sex

Could this headline be any more silly?

GERMAN FIRM PENETRATES SEX MARKET

The subhead is less interesting, “Dolphin-Shaped Dildos From Deutschland” - but it’s still a nice article about Fun Factory, a German company that produces silicone sex toys. My wife bought me their Smart Balls a while back, and they are lots of fun. They also make the Sinnflut, which is a $150 vibrating dildo that apparently has lots of fans - there are three positive reviews on the Babeland website!

And now, my friends…*rubs hands excitedly*…get ready for the redesign! It’s currently in the works by the outstanding Swank Web Design, and I have some behind-the-scenes tuneups waiting to roll out along with the design. I’m not sure yet when it will be released, but keep your eyes open!

Girl Tools Update

January 31, 2007 | CyDy Network, Sex

I want to extend huge thanks to the people who have commented, here and on my own blog, since my last post here. It is really encouraging to me! Unfortunately I am busy this week, blah - lots of all-day training to interpret, a trip to New York over the weekend, and then it quiets down for about a week. And then I go to Las Vegas! But I haven’t really heard much about the lesbian scene there…I’m hoping my wife and I can check out some of it if it’s easy to get to.

But anyway! This is not about my fascinating schedule, this is about a Girl Tools update! I am supposed to be more involved with that site than I am currently, but I haven’t done much with it since I converted it to WordPress and set up the design. There’s a lot to catch up on, mostly featuring Lena and Lorelei. Unfortunately, those two keep stealing all the reviews I’d wanted to do! Their glass dildo feature has a couple of videos associated with it, and they also have a couple of videos to go with the Hitachi Magic Wand review written by Anna.

So my beloved Magic Wand has already been reviewed and filmed, and there have been multiple glass dildo reviews. I will have to dig around in my toy cabinet to see if there’s something really unique I can review! I actually owe the makers of Yoni Butter a review - I am way overdue for that!

Babeland Erotica Contest Winners

December 31, 2006 | Literature, Sex

The Babeland blog has announced their final winner in the erotica contest they ran. I’m a bit disappointed to see that it went to someone who is semi-professional: Alicia Wag has been published in Clean Sheets, Best Women’s Erotica, and more. That’s part of why I didn’t participate in the contest - I felt I didn’t have the writing chops to do it. The story is heterosexual but it’s not bad…just a reminder that Babeland is not an exclusively lesbian operation, as much as I like to fantasize that it is! They are women positive. If you’d like to check out some recommended Babeland toys, visit the sex toys section of CyDyBlog! Through New Year’s Day only you can get 25% off!